What is going on in our world today? Why do we need to lean or reply or someone else for our own happiness?
There is a lot of brokenness and depression going around in the world today and if you investigate just a little, you will see that the major cause has to do with a love relationship.
A lot of people in the world today are emotionally unavailable. They want love but are not ready to give it. They want peace but are so not ready to give it. They want to hurt you and have you stay quiet and keep taking it…yet giving them exactly what they want from you.
Now, I’ve had my own share of experiences that have taught me. I mean, I really learned! Being with someone today that isn’t giving you want you to need…or want and yet, you can’t let go of them even after so many months can cause you to really lose your mind.
I’ve been with someone that made me look at suicide as an option and that’s really crazy. I mean, if they give you nothing that makes them of value to you, why spend emotions and hearts and time in it?
It’s easier said than done right?
My opinion is just this, it is a lot easier to be single than to date these days…yes there are some good relationships out there but then, there are more beasts out there and women tend to find them so easily.
I just want whoever is reading this to enjoy the freedom you have being single, savor it…show yourself a lot of love and care. Doing this will cause you not to even notice whether there’s a thing called #depression.
Take the time to understand what you like and don’t like…Know what your standard is and you will see that, that is very important… As it attracts the right caliber of the opposite sex or lover towards you.
That’s just my take #handsoff
